Hello hello y’all. Are we still going strong with all this work from home? I guess we just have to accept the fact that it is going to be around for a while longer and do the best we can , which I am sure we all are. Maybe all this is part of some plan for humanity, the perfect timing for different other things to work out in ways we probably still don’t realise. Going above the head isn’t it?. Timing, that is what we are talking about today.

There are different aspects to look into when it comes to timing. One, are you waiting for something to happen in life. Two, are you waiting to start something in life. Three, is there a right time to do something (could be as simple as buying something or taking a certain step) and many more. While, each of the scenario looks at timing in a different way, it really depends on what you are applying it to.

The pandora of perfect timing

Timing is everything, or so we have heard like a gazillion times. What exactly is this perfect timing? Is it some kind of a magical moment or a time where you just know this is it and how you even decide that, like what?

It’s all about being in the right place at the right time or making a certain move when the times is right. Sounds familiar, doesn’t it?. This idea believes rather you are in control of your timing. The time where everything seems to fall into place effortlessly and make sense. You just know it’s the right day or perfect weather, you just know it. Okay turned a bit dramatic there, but you get the point.

How does that work though? Is it destiny, should we keep waiting for that moment to feel something? Well no one knows, because it maybe vague and more or less based on our intuitions, which honestly, may not be wrong all the times. But what we should focus more on is what makes us derive at decision or intuition.

But is timing really everything though? Or do actions speak better than that?

Many other believe there is no such thing as a timing and you are what you do. The rest is just us giving excuses or us just procrastinating to start taking action towards whatever we want to be doing or achieving. It is once you stop telling yourself things and actually start doing something about it, that things actually happen. Well this does make sense, the longer time you wait to get going on something solely based on waiting for the right moment, you are wiling away time, with probably no time in the end or it becoming too late. It’s more like a loop and us feeling like life ain’t fair.

Seizing the timing

Everything you do, creates the path for the next and that’s how it works. Whether you do something or not, it is still you at work there.

There is of course nothing wrong in believing in destiny or that certain things are meant to happen at a time, but at the same time we can’t just sit and wait for a time to come.

Instead of leaving it all to the gods, there might be a more systematic way to look at it instead. Listen to yourself, understand the environment around you and ensure you have the right resources with you in that moment to make something happen.

The only thing we all agree is that we all go according to our own timelines, no matter what, no one single person’s life will ever be the same. So, stop beating yourself up for things that happen and those that haven’t. While doing that and believing things happen for a reason or accepting the situation, work on things. Timing and work go hand in hand. Keep doing what we have to, the rest will fall into place.

P.S. Do you believe in perfect timing and if you do, what is the version you are more inclined towards? Do leave in the comments below.